Lack of emotion?

I am never sad or upset when a close family member dies. I don't have any close friends that I care about as far as if something happens to them. My mom could die tomorrow, it would be horrible but I wouldn't be sad anything like that. I was just wondering if that is a bad thing or just the way I am and it's fine. What do you guys think?

Answer:
You are fine. Why would you worry about if others think the way you feel is wrong. Your feelings are yours. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. I feel the same way and I don't have a problem with it. To be honest with you, I couldn't give much of a crap about anyone and could care less if they die. It won't affect my life. Isn't that what is really all about in life, is "me"? You aren't going through life with someone elses pain are you? No. You carry your pain, let others carry their own. What life really boils down to is hurray for me and to hell with the rest of the world. At least that is the example I have been given to go by. No person can live for you or die for you, it is your life. Feel what you like, do what you like and quit worrying about others. I assure you they are not worried about you.
have you ever in your life felt loved and needed? i think that is the question here~
You might be a sociopath
I think you have some deep seeded reason for lacking in the emotions department. It isn't a normal thing. I hope you can eventually find out the reasons behind why you don't feel emotions of sadness when death occurs.
Sincerely, I think this is a condition dependent on both your world view and perspective on life and, also, based on chemical reactions in your brain. There are many factors involved in human emotion and yours can be a result of any number of combinations of them.

I do know what you're talking about though.

Its not like you don't care, its just that you don't have as severe a physical reaction as most.
It's just the way you are. Maybe you have had a hard life and this is how you deal with pain? Dunno
I feel that this is fine. This means that you are a strong person. Instead of not "showing" emotion you can make others believe that it is apparent by speaking of the loved one. The usual like, "She was so ." or "He was so good at." Mourning physically is the same as mourning mentally. You are fine. Hope this helps
For the most part, I think you're ok. Death is inevitable, so why let it get you down? Yeah, you should probably mourn or pay your respects and whatnot, but never dwell on it. I haven't had anyone close to me die yet so I can't say I completely relate, but I do feel as if it did happen I would think very little of it. One thing you also have to think about, death is not bad, death is just death.
To paraphrase Tupac Shakur from the move Tupac Resurrection, people look at death from the selffish side, where its sad cause they're gone, they miss them, etc. Where they should look at it as, he or she is no longer in this world with all the bad stuff, the suffering.
All of people in the world have the same feeling with the same senses of the living that GOD gave to them,if we use them in to good way of our living :

1.we can know and get them
2.we can enjoye about all of feeling and senses
3.we can realy be lover about everything

in this conditions every thing be important to us
no there is nothing wrong with you, you are just a very strong person, I is the same way.
the feeling of not feeling is a feeling itself.
Sounds like you could have depression. Men often report feeling "numb" instead of feeling "sad." Only a counselor can tell you for sure.

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