Can a 19 year old girl...?

fall in love with 41 year old gorgeous blonde women?? She's married with teenage kids, but she and her husband are swingers and her husband must know what she gets up to without him.

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Love or lust? Is this your first experience with a woman? If so, how can you be sure it's not just infatuation? If push comes to shove I don't think she'll be there for you; she's got too much to lose at home. Have fun, but don't fall too far; it's an awfully long way back if you do. **If you really fall for this woman she will not reciprocate. She's doubtless flattered that a nubile young woman fancies her. From what you say there have been others before you. She's still with her husband & kids though isn't she ? Just don't go head over heels, this is soooo unlikely to be more than a fling for her. Honest. Take care.**
yes it is possible but it will slowly and painfully pull the family's life apart ...
I don't think you can help who you fall for. I don't know if I would call it love, but possibly lust. Have you acted on this impulse? I really don't think age is too much of a factor. But it really sounds as though its all looks based because of your description.
Sure. Can I videotape the event? Perhaps join in?
I THINK THE WOMAN IN QUESTION IS JEOPARDIZING HER FAMILY. I THINK THAT SWINGERS ARE PERSONS WHO DEEP INSIDE ARE NOT COMMITTED TO A RELATIONSHIP AND ALWAYS HAVE ONE FOOT OUTSIDE TO RUN AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT. I TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH THE SITUATION. ALSO TO BE INVOLVED WITH A TEENAGER IS A BIG MISTAKE FOR BOTH OF THE PERSONS INVOLVED AND IS DISGUSTING, AS SHE COULD BE HER OWN DAUGHTER.
SEEK PSYCHOLOGICAL COUNSEL OR A TRUSTED PERSON TO ANALYZE THIS AND YOU WILL SEE BETTER SEEK AFFAIRS WITH PERSONS YOUR AGE.
aaaw babe, I would love to say 'go-for-it' but I think there are too many obstacles.the hubby may be in denial as to what the wife gets up to, so he turns a blind eye.

If she is used to playing about, the likely hood of her falling for you equally is very much in doubt.

Also, her children, who have no idea of her sexuality, will be terribly hurt if it was to become public. I'm sure her children know nothing of her exploits regarding swinging so she will be equally resitant in them knowing about you.

If it's a bit of fun with no-one (including yourself) getting hurt.then age is irrelevant!

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Any one can fall in love with a 41yr old gorgeous blonde woman??
Yes, a 19-year old girl can fall for a 41-year old woman, BUT especially being swingers it doesn't mean she'll fall in love with you back. Swinging is about additional sex to their already great sex life together and something that is done for them as a couple. It is together fulfilling fantasies they have, even if they play solo from time-to-time. So although you may become a good friend of theirs, chances are that unless they are polyamorous the feelings will never be reciprocated.

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