What do you consider a boring person? Can they change?

A bore is someone who deprives you of solitude without providing you with companionship.
I hope they can change. I've been feeling like a boring person ever since yesterday. The reason I feel like that is because I barely talked to my friend at all when we were out...and when I did, I said stupid things. I probably asked her questions that were too personal and I rambled about things she probably didn't care about. But mostly I was just quiet. I wasn't funny, I didn't have anything useful or interesting to say, and I didn't make her smile or laugh.

I know I am totally wallowing in self-pity, which is everything I am against, but I am stuck in the mindset. I think it's because I put so much of my heart into this and I didn't meet my own expectations for having a good time with my friend...we can't see each other that often and I felt like she won't want to see me anymore after this.

It sucks to feel boring, doesn't it?
I think boring is a quality and a state of mind.

So every human being can be boring sometimes.

Perhaps, we are boring when we feel bored and/or we can't be real / authentic. We are afraid to be who we really are, so we fill the space with artificial, phony, trivial comments - this can be really boring. However, I think if we are honest and sincere with ourselves and others, we will never be boring. This is very hard to do - to face ourselves - to have the power and energy to do that. So there are times, we can't, so we will be boring.

Am I boring you?

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