I can't take it anymore?

I have low self-esteem and no self worth

All I want to do is die and end the pain. I've been through alot in my life and the more I try to go on, the worst it gets and I"m so tired of everything. I just want to be happy. Is that too much to ask for? I hate myself so much. I hate the way I am. I don't understand why I cannot interact with others. I have this tendency of seeing a deeper meaning to what others say and I am usually right. It's driving me nuts. I don't know what to do anymore.

Answer:
Find something you really like and stick to it.
Like arts, some sport, some leisure or even someone you like. When I'm deppressed I always think "well, at least I have _____ that I love" or "at least I really enjoy eating cake". It sounds stupid, but sometimes it cheers me up. When it's really bad then I try to see the disgrace from a comic point of view, as if it was happening to some character in a movie. Sometimes it's so bad that I can't even process the situation.
You're going to drive yourself nuts with caring about what other people think. You need to look in the mirror and say I am so worth it. I am fabulous, I am special. There is no other like me because that is the truth.

You need to learn to love yourself and try to laugh more and have some fun.

When you're young you should be light and carefree, not burdened with all kinds of self-doubt.

Your parents should be the ones putting this self-affirmation in you, and if they aren't then talk to other adults that you trust to help you along. A teacher, a counselor, a priest, etc. You should not be alone with those feelings and feeling like that because you are SO worth it.
you need to talk to someone like a therapist, preferably a psychiatrist who can decide if your depression is bad enough to warrant meds. I think it is; i have felt pretty much like you described. It started when I was 14 or 15. Anti-depressants have helped a lot.

Feel free to email me if you want details, or to compare notes.
I can't take it either.
You should find alternative choises. There will be always plenty of them
Sweetheart, I am really sorry to hear that you are in so much pain. I don't know you but I wish I could just give you a hug and let you know that you are special and that you DO matter! It sounds like you have gone through a lot in your life.

What is it about yourself that you hate? Seeing that deeper meaning into what others say..well that sounds like you see the core of what people mean when they talk to you, which I think can be somewhat of a blessing and a curse.being deep and insightful...but seeing through others selfish motives..it can hurt to be on the receiving end of all that.

Well, the first thing to do would be to pray if you believe in God and or talk to someone. It does't have to be a therapist, but a good loving and caring friend that knows how to listen. Also, I know of a couple of phenomenal books on Self Esteem and understanding why you are the way you are. If you're interested I would love to share them with you.

Also my dear, if you need a friend or someone who you can let out some steam or try to brainstorm with you the root of your "mental funk", write me, I would love to help you out in some way!

Take care dear and know that you are important and that you DO matter and I truly wish you lots of truth, understanding, and genuine friendships.
well just think if things r so bad how much better they'll feel later when u got through them

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